LIFEIN THE REARVIEW MIRROR

My philosophy of life is, “You are born, you die and in between you do something.” While doing that something, you learn something. My posts on this Blog are not attempting to change anybody’s mind. I know I can’t do that, but maybe after my seven decades plus of life experience, I can shed some experiential light on another way to think. Life gives us something to do and I believe a big chunk of my life’s something is giving others something to think about. Think about that.







Saturday, May 2, 2015

THERE IS HOPE, I HOPE



I'm seeing slight glimmers of hope.

Over the years, I have been very down on the leaders of the Black community. They have constantly portrayed Blacks as victims. When your only power is in your victimhood, you are not inclined to give it up. When you are a victim, you have no control; what or who is victimizing you has to let you go before you can go on. That is certainly a downside, but the upside to victimhood, and why so many buy into this fallacy, is you are no longer responsible for what you do.

Every time an unfortunate situation like Baltimore, Ferguson or New York occurs, out come the "It's not your fault" chants from the Black leaders from the President on down. The latest speech by Hillary (echoing the President) basically said our social system must be unfair and unjust because there is an inordinate number of Blacks in jail. (Is there another reason why that could be true?) The "leaders" chant that this high Black "unfair" incarceration rate is what is responsible for the 70% of families being without a father. I'm sure that's true to some degree, but is it also possible that our increasingly generous and condescending welfare system makes a fragmented family possible if not desirable?

But, I'm seeing slight glimmers of hope.

What I am seeing is the "folks" are filling the void the leaders are creating. Lately, I have heard more interviews with common people affected by the rabble in their midst who recognize what has to be done. This change in the African-American relationship with the rest of society, since it does not appear to be in the Black leadership's interest for any change to happen, this change must begin from the ground up, from the inside out. If substantial change is to occur in the black community, it requires a change in behavior. Truly changing one's behavior is not as easy as it sounds because a true change in behavior requires a change in belief. Once the folks stop believing they are victims, they can start behaving in a way more consistent with a civilized society.

I have seen in those interviews, people who are concerned about things every rational person is concerned about -- the safety of their families and themselves. They desperately want neighborhoods they can live in, not neighborhoods they can die in.

Those who will be the from the ground up leaders of tomorrow will recognize they cannot entrust the future to those in the school system who reward poor performance with advancement to the next level of failure; tomorrow's leaders will not accept that. Leaders cannot entrust the future to the judicial system which negates negative consequences to anti-social actions and just seems to bestow creds on the punks; tomorrow's leaders will not accept that. Leaders cannot entrust the future to the streets where dress and language more reflect some bizarre social club than people who want to contribute to society; tomorrow's leaders will not accept that.

For the last few years, I found it seriously humorous that on every TV show there was the obligatory major black character. Consistent with social progress, today that character has to be in a biracial relationship. While I am cynical enough to believe the producers are doing this to keep Al Sharpton out of their offices, this does have for "Hollywood" positive unintended consequences. The everyday Blacks, who the leaders have labeled as victims, are seen living a life outside of prison, speaking and dressing like prosperous citizens, being a part of an intact family, raising respectful children, and most importantly, not being held down by "the man." These are images the ordinary folks do not get from their leaders and images they must have to create the world in which they desperately wish and deserve to live.

I'm seeing slight glimmers of hope.




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